2019-04-24

What is love about in a relationship

What is love about in a relationship
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Tag the person you love👇3 years ago I was fortunate enough to marry the most incredible person. @veggieveganveda I love you SO MUCH! We’ve been together nearly 6 YEARS now and here’s the 6 LESSONS I’ve learned since... 1. Love means growing together, but growth looks different for everyone. I have to observe how you grow and help YOU grow in a way that is natural and organic to YOU not what I expect from myself. 2. YOU are not here to make me happy, that’s my responsibility to make me happy. You’re here to support, enhance and add to anything I do and I’m here for the same. 3. You are not here to feed my insecurities and ego. You are here to become the best version of yourself and for us to encourage, enlighten and empower each other. 4. There are times when I will lead and there are times when you will lead. Knowing when and letting the other do so is very important. 5. Whenever there’s an issue, argument or challenge, remember it’s not me against you it’s US against the problem. We’re a team, there’s no right or wrong, there’s no winning or losing. 6. Without a higher spiritual purpose any bond can weaken and break. Thank you for always reminding me of our spiritual priorities, process and practices. Thank you for making them your heart and soul and inspiring me to do the same. You’re more monk than I’ll ever be! Love is about support not sacrifice Love is about communication not compromise Love is about trust not tolerance Love is about energy not ego All these things take time. Don’t expect them on Day 1. Thank you my love for teaching me everything so beautifully and effortlessly. Thank you for sharing your amazing heart, food and energy with the world - I know everyone feels it and loves it! Thank you for hugging, humoring and humbling me exactly in the way I need. When we met I had nothing to offer you but love. No job, no money and no clear direction but you chose love and I’ll always be grateful for that. Thank you for always trusting me through everything. I’m so deeply grateful I get to share eternity with you.
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We’ve been together nearly 6 YEARS now and here’s the 6 LESSONS I’ve learned since...

1. Love means growing together, but growth looks different for everyone. I have to observe how you grow and help YOU grow in a way that is natural and organic to YOU not what I expect from myself.
2. YOU are not here to make me happy, that’s my responsibility to make me happy. You’re here to support, enhance and add to anything I do and I’m here for the same.

3. You are not here to feed my insecurities and ego. You are here to become the best version of yourself and for us to encourage, enlighten and empower each other.

 4. There are times when I will lead and there are times when you will lead. Knowing when and letting the other do so is very important.

 5. Whenever there’s an issue, argument or challenge, remember it’s not me against you it’s US against the problem. We’re a team, there’s no right or wrong, there’s no winning or losing.

 6. Without a higher spiritual purpose any bond can weaken and break. Thank you for always reminding me of our spiritual priorities, process and practices. Thank you for making them your heart and soul and inspiring me to do the same. You’re more monk than I’ll ever be!

Love is about support not sacrifice
Love is about communication not compromise
Love is about trust not tolerance
Love is about energy not ego

All these things take time. Don’t expect them on Day 1.

Thank you my love for teaching me everything so beautifully and effortlessly.
Thank you for sharing your amazing heart, food and energy with the world - I know everyone feels it and loves it!
Thank you for hugging, humoring and humbling me exactly in the way I need. When we met I had nothing to offer you but love. No job, no money and no clear direction but you chose love and I’ll always be grateful for that.
Thank you for always trusting me through everything. I’m so deeply grateful I get to share eternity with you.

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